I wonder sometimes how many people think they are on the outside looking in feeling as if the freedom that Jeuss offers is not for them.
I wonder sometimes how the church, intended or not, has put up fences that contribute to this feeling.
Have we erected fences? Can you identify any?
Now, here's what happens frequently when we consider such questions. We point fingers at others and what THEY have done to put up the barriers.
So, here's my challenge today: personalize it. What have YOU done intentionally or unintentionally to erect fences?
2 comments:
OK, I'll go first. One of the things that I need to continue to own and find a way to address is that I simply do not take enough time to be with and listen to those who appear to be on the outside looking in. What would happen if I were even more intentional in being available, in asking questions that stir the heart, in really listening for understanding, in loving without preconceived judgement?
When I've had the perception that someone does not like me or has left me out I tend to not interact with them as much. I do it to protect my own feelings. I have found out my perception on a number of occasions is completely incorrect and that it has nothing to do with me at all. What I think my behavior does is create a less than loving approachability. It doesn't give the relationship a chance to grow deeper. I create my own little fence of "protection"...or at least that's what I think it does. I should look to the one who has my back all the time...Jesus. And give people a chance.
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